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Hey there everyone ... hope you all are having a better start to your New Year than I am LOL.

So many things to catch up on, I don't know where to start. I really want to go into detail (just so I can get this out) but I honestly don't know where to start.

The "good" news, so far anyway, is that my sister-in-law is FINALLY divorcing the douchebag. HOWEVER,  it has come with not only anticipated stress ... but legal issues,  family issues, health issues, and basically anything else you can think of. The past 2 weeks have been nothing but late night wake up calls, trips to the police station,  trips to the doctor, and just bullshit in general.  We all knew this was coming ... but somehow, she is still a little surprised at the lengths he has gone to to make her life hell. (Obviously the rest of us .. not surprised at all)

But, here's the thing ... something is fishy tonight. She has a restraining order against him ... but she asked her mom for her wedding ring tonight, saying she may be able to sell it tomorrow. There are a few other fishy things,  but for legals reasons, I won't post them here.
Call it intuition ... but I think something is going on that shouldn't be. I really think she's not bluffing about the divorce because she moved all her stuff here today (*sarcastic smile*) .... and after all, he did threaten to kill her (hence the order of protection).

*HEAVY SIGH* ugh!!! I just don't know. I hope she proves me wrong. All I know is that her moving back here is NOT going to work for very long. She got a new puppy, so now we are back to 5 dogs ... and my poor Ramey has cancer, yet is basically forced to stay in the basement with me because her stupid dog starts fights with him ... even tho he is about 30 pounds, and Ramey is damn near 70 lol.

All I know is that the last few days have been nothing but chaos and arguments. Ryan & I are DEF looking for a way to get out of here, but I'm not working and since it's winter, he doesn't always get 40 hours because of the cold days with bad windchills, etc.

I hate to say it ... but I can already see this tearing the family apart,  because everyone is arguing and it's accomplishing nothing other than splitting the family in two.

Please LORD, give me the strength to keep my sanity for a few more months!!!!

Anyway... I miss you guys! I hope you are all happy & content. If you can, send some good vibes my way ... I sure could use them ;-) ♡♡♡

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Oh god, honey, what a mess! :( I really hope for a good resolution in this, but damn, what a mess! Domestic violence issues are no good, and this guy was an asshat from the start. I'm sending lots of (((huggles and love))) your way! <3

I am so sorry hon. it is always something with her isn't it :(. hopefully things will settle down or you can find a decent place of your own.

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